boring is good

Boring is Good

I feel like my life is boring right now. To be clear, Universe, I am content to have it that way! Boring is good! I feel a bit uninspired to write about it, though.

I’m back to work full time after my much needed time off. I can’t even call it a vacation, because I didn’t do anything exciting. I stayed at home, resting, reclaiming my sense of self, and sorting through some minor health imbalances.

Although I am back into a heavily scheduled routine, I feel like I am being lazy, even though I am not. When I am not working or teaching or in a meeting, I am cross-stitching, often when I ought to be going to bed!

This seems like an ideal life to me right now.

Am I obsessed? Maybe a little.

It is helping me relax, and feel in control of something in this out of control time. I enjoy seeing the progress, as the shapes and colors create patterns and images out of the blank canvas of the aida cloth.

Having a creative outlet is so important! My (current) favorite author says that cultivating creativity is one of the ten guideposts to wholehearted living.

I’m not very creative” doesn’t work. There’s no such thing as creative people and non-creative people. There are only people who use their creativity and people who don’t. Unused creativity doesn’t just disappear. It lives within us until it’s expressed, neglected to death, or suffocated by resentment and fear.

Brené Brown (2010). “The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are”, p.108, Simon and Schuster

The other guideposts are Authenticity, Self-Compassion, A Resilient Spirit, Gratitude and Joy, Intuition and Trusting Faith, Play and Rest, Calm and Stillness, Meaningful Work, and Laughter, Song and Dance.

I didn’t set out to make my cross stitch projects in an effort to live wholeheartedly. It is a positive result, that for me also hits the Rest guidepost – when I don’t let it keep me up all night.

Other small things are going on in the background – I am listening to podcasts and audiobooks on leadership, as well as reading books on leadership. In these ways I am engaging and growing my mind.

What are you doing to cultivate creativity?

Blessings,
Mary